On July, 11, 2006 5:19 PM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Hi Wonders , thank you for linking back to me in your blog and I am happy we will be able to read you here.

Will check you here every now and then.

Now, back to where I belong!

On July, 11, 2006 5:28 PM , wonders
from Jordan said:

Thank you Fadi.. your opinion is valueable to me!

On July, 11, 2006 5:49 PM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Wondering ; It's the right approach to change... I've just got that clue.

Another thing , Inner peace reflects in a smile. True ones , not yellow!

On July, 12, 2006 10:05 AM , wonders
from Jordan said:

for me fadi inner peace is unreachable don't know why!! but u r right it is reflected with a true smile

On July, 12, 2006 6:09 PM , sarah
from Lebanon said:

Where is the place in which we can do the things we like? Where is the place in which we'll find inner peace?

in my opinion inside your self :),between you and ur self
accept my best greetings :)

thanks for visiting me :)

On July, 12, 2006 10:12 PM , Neverland
from Jordan said:

Hi Wonder,
Thanks for dropping by to my blog :) Will be dropping by to yours enshallah...You know what? I shouldn't visit any blog, but MAN I am addicted to the bone!
Take care, and enjoy the blogging experiance :)

On July, 13, 2006 1:12 AM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Neverland , back to books!! Emshy men hon!

On July, 13, 2006 10:34 AM , wonders
from Jordan said:

Sarah: i think you have a point but somehow it's difficult when there's a lot of outside elements attributing.. thank you from dropping by ;)

Neverland: again good luck! thanks for dropping by.. but don't lsn to fadi :) u can still keep blogging in breaks between studying..

On July, 13, 2006 10:55 AM , thecaller
from Egypt said:

asalam 3alaykom,
Wonders..
i like what you wrote..everything changes from time to time even the inner peace and the the focused mind..it's how flexible we are to that..made of rubber we should be??
no,just flesh and blood and everything will pass..
*i think i just came up with a line of my new poem..thanks:):)
it happened on your grounds:):)

On July, 13, 2006 11:04 AM , wonders
from Jordan said:

thank you the caller for dropping by.. i agree with you. i'm glad regarding the poem :) i'll be one of the first who read it.

On July, 13, 2006 1:58 PM , Neverland
from Jordan said:

Thanks Wonders :)

Ya fadi, menshan allah I wanna chat with people, and welcome them zay ma bedy, ana 3arfeh man ween 3am tetla3ly :D

On July, 13, 2006 3:08 PM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

Boosy el tobeh and say sorry!

On July, 13, 2006 3:40 PM , Neverland
from Jordan said:

No! :(

On July, 13, 2006 4:37 PM , wonders
from Jordan said:

Fadiiii.... leave her alone. you don't see any one telling you to go away since you have a delivery on sunday, right? ;) she could use a break every once in a while

On July, 13, 2006 6:31 PM , hamede
from United States said:

It is in u.

On July, 14, 2006 10:35 AM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

3ashanek Wonders!

Neverland: Fee3y ya benet!

Hamede: thank you again.. i'm sure it is.

Fadi: thank you for letting her stay ;)

Hello Wonders

I read your post, but just to make things clearer can you give me some examples on what males can do but females cannot, and other examples on what some females can do while other cannot.

By the way the email address shown is not a real one, so if anyone likes to comment on what I wrote please leave your comments here.

Thank you a lot

On July, 18, 2006 9:50 AM , wonders
from Jordan said:

Hi Justice,

first of all thank u for dropping by here.
There are a lot of things actually, in our communities males can do almost anything and get away with it, but females are the one who get the stigmata for everything. like staying out late, smoking, having friends from the opposite gender or if having an intimate relationship. (not that i suffer any of this, i'm just giving examples). what really annoys me for example the rights that females still don't have. a mother can't pass on her nationality to her kids. in some countries she cannot travel on her own, females are judged to be less smart than males, and a lot more.

what is happening in our community is that some individuals and some families are starting to realize this, so they are changing. but on the other hand a lot are still looking at females the same way. So there's no consistency which makes it hard on both parties. thus explaining my point when i said:"Why is ok for a female to do something and for another it is not?"

i hope i make sence.. :)

On July, 26, 2006 9:36 PM , Fadi K
from Jordan said:

I hear my Friend Justice was here .. Where is his comment?

On July, 27, 2006 11:02 AM , wonders
from Jordan said:

Wallah ya Fadi you are right he was here, but some broadcasting errors occured :) don't worry he promised to be back

Hello Wonders... How r u??

Ok I agree with you that females in jordan cant do whatever they want; there are lots of boundaries around them. But I dont like the way you think abou it.

My point is that before you start asking for those rights you have to ask for more important rights that are forebidden from females, such as:

1. The right of education: many girls reach the sixth grade and their fathers just take them out of the school and start looking for someone to marry them.

2. The right of the woman to become a pilot or a judge.
Many countries dont give right to the woman to work in these two fields despite the fact that they are mentally capable of doing that.

3. In the parliament the women are given a quota, which means that there are fixed number of females that can be members of the parliament. I think this is an insult for the females, this quota is actually putting boundaries around females, while some females are happy with them!!

4. So many females live under threatening and physical abuse from their husbands and fathers and sometimes brothers, there should be official committies responsible to conserve this right of decent living.

There are too many rights the females dont have in Jordan and you should ask for before looking at those rights like going out late and smoking. I know those rights are really important and you use them everyday but you will never get them if you dont get the more basic rights like the ones that I have just mentioned.

For me I have an explanation why is this happening with females in Jordan but I prefere not to talk about it. Im my opinion that this problem will some how fade in the comming 15 years but it will never end completely.

On July, 27, 2006 3:56 PM , wonders
from Jordan said:

The points you mentioned justice are true.. add to that the arabic female cannot pass on her nationality to her kids.

also not forgetting that in some countries adult females still need permission from their so called guardian to do small things, such as driving!

I know all of that, the things i had in mind when i wroted the above was things on a more personal level.. although everything is personal, but i hope you know what i mean.